Overcome Dating Anxiety by Mastering Your Mind - Dating Confidence for Men

Do you cling to the women you start dating?

Are you afraid of losing every attractive woman you connect with?

Do you feel nervous or creepy when it comes to approaching them?

Does the fear of rejection hurt so bad that you don't even bother trying?

Do you fantasize about having an amazing girl by your side but you don't even put yourself out there?

When you struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, and low self-worth

Dating feels like a daunting process

As a man who used to have debilitating dating anxiety, I know that becoming confident with yourself, calm, at peace with who you are in relationships can feel challenging.

Here’s why...

Your mind hangs onto old belief systems, blocking you from your potential, causing you frustration, discouragement, and blocking your ability to be your best self around her.

In this workshop you will learn how to:

• Stop finding yourself afraid of rejection
• Manage your fear around meeting new women
• Become yourself on dates
• Overcome feeling depressed and unmotivated to date
• Eliminate negative self-talk

It’s time to end your vicious cycle and live a life without limits.

You’ll feel more connected with other women, and romantic relationships in a way that you’ve always imagined

This workshop will show you the path to overcome your fears of dating and connecting with women so you can become the most confident version of yourself…Imagine a life OF NO LIMITATIONS

This is NOT some cheesy pick-up artist class.

This is a 4-day workshop that will help you learn to love and empower yourself so you can have the ability to share who you are CONFIDENTLY with the women you want to pursue

My name is Shawn “Sheshn” Heshmatpour, you can call me either Shawn or Sheshn. I’m not only a playful soul who always sees the fun in life, I am also the first life coach in the industry to have my hairy arms mistaken as tattoo sleeves. At a young age I had extreme social anxiety, would get bullied a lot, and I didn’t have much self confidence. I had anxiety making friends, building relationships, and was absolutely frightened to put myself out there to date women.

However, the early negative conditioning and trauma could not stop my persistence in personal growth. Towards my last couple years of streaming on Twitch, I dove into books and listened to audio content on self development. I continued this journey with multiple mentors and within months at a time, my momentum of personal development skyrocketed. I was learning things about myself and the world in a matter of weeks that may have taken years to learn without coaching and reading.

As I become more confident in who I am as a person and took more risks on myself, I became a life coach for people who struggled with social anxiety and lack of self-confidence. I did that for over a year, coaching over 50 people one-on-one to help them gain the confidence to make new friends, build relationships, build businesses, go on dates, become better parents/spouses, and become confident in ANYTHING they wanted to do. Most importantly, teaching them to expand their heart and heal from their pain by turning it into light.

Now, I coach and teach men how to do the same but with dating and relationships. I used to hold in so much fear of putting myself out there because of my dark past and as I have expanded as a person and a coach, I have learned to become confident with women while being my authentic self and showing up from a place of genuine love.

The truth is, as healthy men, we don’t need to be in our egos and play games in order to meet women. You can be genuine without being walked all over or rejected. My coaching methodology, cognitive mastery and emotional ownership is a self-development and spiritual process for men who want to date confidently by being their completely authentic self.

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Santa Barbara, United States