Out In Nature Connecting Touch Exchange,Workshop & Social Mixer.

When was the last time you were touched?

And by touch I don't mean the intimate kind, as that is personal and not relevant to what is being offered. But rather I am referring to holding hands, a hug, a cuddle etc...from siblings, friends, children or from a romantc partner too.

So...

Are you single or in a relationship and experiencing skin hunger and touch deprived?

I ask this because not all people in relationships experience regular touch in the same way that some single people might not as well. Yet touch is absolutely crucial for health and wellbeing for all human beings.

If you cannot remember the last time you got your touch needs met in whichever way was significant to you, you can always:

• find someone to have a relationship with,
• have a casual physical arrangement with someone,
• or get your friends, children, siblings etc..to give you more hugs or cuddles ,
• or you can have a massage done on a regular basis

These are just a few options, but here is another option:

Why not join a community where you can get your touch needs met in a platonic, safe space where everyone is welcome?

If so... this event could be perfect for you.....

This event will be run outdoors in nature. This event is great value because it offers a few activities in one event run in the afternoon:

• You get to be out in nature which is beneficial for health.
• A Connecting Touch Exchange will be happening during the event . This means that for anyone who is not getting enough touch in their lives, they get their fill of platonic touch. Human touch is extremely important for all aspect of human health.
• A short workshop on Emotional Mastery will be run as well. We will be focusing on the importance of mastering Emotional Intelligence.
• The social mixer will happen either at the start of the event or at the end of the event... This is ideal for anyone looking to network, make friends, getting to meet new people etc...

A ll this on offer in one event and in one afternoon in a lovely outdoor nature spot in the South London Beddington-Carshalton area.

WHAT IS CONNECTING TOUCH EXCHANGE?

Connecting Touch is a Neuroscience and Energy Healing approach that allows anyone who is lacking touch to experience safe, boundaried touch one on one with another person(s) to get their touch needs met in a platonic way (there is no sexual touch involved at all).

Connecting Touch is suitable for both men and women, whether single or in relationships, as the touch and communication done and learnt in a Connecting Touch session will enhance and deepen connection with others.

WHAT HAPPENS DURING A CONNECTING TOUCH EXCHANGE SESSION ?

•After an explanation of what is involved we start with self massage and connect to our bodies.

•We will then connect through respectful, boundaried-consent driven touch and massage with others. (We will be rotating in pairs: either with someone of the same sex or of the opposite sex.)Connecting Touch is platonic touch and the process is about learning to touch in a healthy, boundaried manner via light touch that allows for the nervous system to co-regulate. At the same time speaking to the other person in a way that allows each to feel seen and heard.

•We end with movement to move stuck energy through the body.

WHAT THE EMOTIONAL MASTERY WORKSHOPS ARE ABOUT:

Emotional Intelligence starts with understanding that our emotions tell us something important about ourselves. When you get to understand and manage your emotions you not only keep your stress levels down, but you have better relationships with others because you are able to read social queues better and can also implement boundaries.

The aim of the workshops is to be fun, educational and interactive. And it compliments the Connecting Touch Exchange beattifully as well.

AND SO FINALLY:WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW IN ORDER TO JOIN IN...

This event is being run to achieve well-being through platonic touch and connection, empowering communication and practicing asking for what you want. You choose if you want to share nurturing, loving, platonic touch and comforting connection and with whom.

You are encouraged to explore empowering yourself through practicing asking for what you need and want. Get your normal, natural connection needs met in a safe, respectful and satisfying manner. You are welcome regardless of age, gender identity, sexuality, politics, race, religion, creed, ability etc.... Gender balancing is not the focus so everyone welcome for compassionate connection.

The group agreement/etiquette is as follows:

•Adults over 18's only .

•Please practice basic hygiene: that means being clean, having bathed and having clean clothes on a courtesy to others. If at all possible please avoid wearing strong scents.

•Attendees are encouraged to check in with themselves and keep themselves safe at all times. Everyone has the choice to participate or not , there is no pressure to do anything.

•Please ask permission before you touch anyone, anywhere - gain consent first. All emotions are welcomed. Ask for what you want and be prepared to negotiate a win / win situation. Please graciously accept a 'no'. Please say 'thank you' after each interaction. Please be kind, caring and respectful.

•Keep your clothes on at all times . No touching bikini areas. No kissing. This is not a romantic or dating event. This is also not a cuddle party and so will be run very differently. Inappropriate behaviour will not be tolerated and anyone who is disrespectful will be asked to leave and will not be allowed to join any of my events, whether online or in person.

•For anyone wishing to attend that have personal requirements that need to be considered in order to attend this event please contact me to discuss before you RSVP.

Come and join in: learn to be more of who you really are in a space where all emotions are welcome. Empower your relationship with yourself and others. Connecting Touch Exchange improves health and wellbeing while being great fun. At the same time there is an element of wellbeing education and platonic touch, which is so important to staying healthy.

DISCLAIMER: If you have a history of past trauma(s)and you are easily triggered by touch, please note this space is not suitable for you. Attendees will need to assume responsibility for their own emotional wellbeing as it's not always possible to consider individual triggers in a group setting.This event is not being offered as therapy/counselling and so does not constitute as a diagnosis or replacement for medical or psychological treatment. It is being run for self-help, motivation, information/educational purposes only.

BENEFITS OF ATTENDING:

As a, I will be running this event in nature for anyone wanting to connect to nature, themselves and others:

•Enjoy nature, while connecting to it .

•Connect and socialise with like minded people.

•Get your touch needs met.

•Calm down.

•We will learn how to ask permission to touch another in a way that feels safe to them and honours them. We will learn the different ways that women experience touch compared to men and how the craving for touch is processed in the brain differently between the sexes and why this happens.

•We will learn how to listen to our bodies and how they react when we are touched in a manner that makes us feel fully seen and accepted.

•We will learn how to be fully present to one self and another.

•Learn the importance of mastering your emotional inner landscape. Each month we focus on a different emotional response and find better ways to handle emotions and keep stress levels down.

Hopefully you will spend a few hours having fun, being healthy and connecting with others and leave feeling rejuvenated!

WELCOME TO CONNECTED EXCLUSIVE EVENTS....

My name is Lou and it gives me great pleasure to offer events that connects people in meaningful and fun ways, while at the same time offering a more bespoke service that does not break the bank! I pride myself in making sure during my events that everyone feel welcome and included as I know how daunting it can be to meet new people! Here are a few things you need to know before RSVPing...

• All my in person events are listed without a specific meet up location(just a general area is mentioned ) and once RSVPs close a day before the event after 9.30pm all attendees will get a message from me with my contact number and exact meet up details, and any pertinent last minute information. (please ensure you contact me should you not receive the message no later than 7am on the day of the event. I do not give refunds for no shows if an attendee claims they did not get meet up location notification, or contact me after 7am on the day of the event. Please ensure your email address is correct and up to date when you RSVP to ensure you are contactable). I am contactable on my mobile phone around the time of the event, so if you cannot find the venue or the group, please feel free to get in touch by phone.(This is for phone calls only. I do not reply to text messages)

• The listed fee per person to RSVP to this event is non-refundable.On occasion there might be a need to reschedule events. This can be due to the weather(for outside/nature events like this one) or many other unforeseen circumstances that can come up, which will make rescheduling an event a necessity. As I list my events ahead of time, I usually check to see the weather forecast before listing outdoor events like this one: however there are no guarantees that the weather will be dry and sunny. Nearer the time, if it is clear that the weather is going to be wet and untenable to be outdoors, I will have no choice but to reschedule the event.(I do not issue refunds due to adverse weather conditions). When this happens, attendees will automatically be moved to attend the new date of the rescheduled event. If the attendee is not available to attend the event on the rescheduled date, please get in touch and the fee paid will be used as a credit for any other event (online and in person) of the same ticketed value. No refunds/credits given for late arrivals, no shows, if you change your mind, if you can no longer attend, or claim not to have known the meet up point, or just don't like how or where the event was run etc.. If there is a concern that has not been listed on here, I will address it on a case by case basis. In these circumstances, if a refund is requested and granted this will be done minus Eventbrite fees.

• The event fee to RSVP minimally covers the cost, time and fees necessary to put these events together and is set to encourage attendees to turn up to the event. My events are listed well ahead of time and RSVPs are open until a day before the event.Reminders are sent out as well. Please do not RSVP unless you know you can attend. This allows me, the host, a chance to curate a better event for all and it creates a better experience for those that do show up on the day.

• The listed event fee is not redeemable against any drinks/food or extras. Drinks (and extras like food etc..)are paid for by each person directly to the venue. There is no minimum spend at venues, unless this is specified. All my events are run as walk-in events at the venues.I am in no way affiliated or representing the venues. Therefore if attendees have any questions on the day please contact me directly on my mobile phone and not the venue.

• If you have any any personal requirements that you need to be considered to attend this event please contact me to discuss before you RSVP.

As the organiser, I will take all possible precautions to ensure that this event is run as safely as possible for all attendees. By signing up and attending any of my events , you agree that your safety and personal belongings are your own responsibility and I am not responsible or liable for either.

Event Venue

South London Beddington-Carshalton area, United Kingdom