Open Community Potluck & Discussion Sunnyvale

Come share stories, build connections, and meet new friends in a welcoming space centered on authentic, intentional, open-hearted relationships in community.

This community values consent, honesty, authenticity, vulnerability, kindness, acceptance, and accountability.

You don’t have to be dating, or practicing any particular relationship style — if these values resonate with you, you’re invited.

By attending this event, you agree to read and abide by these community guidelines.

- Expect to encounter a variety of relationship styles, orientations, gender expressions, and life experiences.

-Comfort levels around touch, storytelling, and boundaries will vary.

-What we all have in common is an interest in cultivating intentional and authentic relationships.

-You are invited to be curious—ask questions, listen, learn, and share.

-You are invited — but not required — to hold space for others and for yourself.

-Holding space means letting people speak their truth and exist as they are, without assumptions, judgment, advice, or pressure to fix anything.

-Sometimes this is the only place where someone gets to simply be.

-You are invited to listen with presence and empathy.

-A “yes” means yes. A “no,” silence, “maybe,” or hesitation means no.

-If you hear no, respect it without needing an explanation.

-A yes now doesn’t automatically mean a yes later — ongoing consent matters and can always change.

-You may see hugging, cuddling, or kissing—and people saying yes to some and no to others.

-Always ask before entering someone’s personal space. For example: “Would you like a hug?” or “May I sit next to you?”

-If you want, you can offer alternative connections: “I’m no to a hug, but yes to a high five or handshake.”

-Some people here are open to sharing everything, while others prefer to keep explicit or personal stories private.

-Please pause to ask the people around you before sharing explicit stories (sex, kink, BDSM) without consent.

-Everything shared in this group should be treated as confidential and private.

-Do not share stories that name others without their permission.

-Do not greet people outside this group in a way that could out them.

-Do not take or share photos/videos without the clear consent of everyone who would be photographed.

-Kissing, cuddling, and flirting may happen — otherwise, keep activity at this event non-sexual.

-Clothing stays on for the entire event.

-Exception: This venue has a hot tub where attendees may choose to wear a swimsuit or be nude. The hot tub is a non-sexual space for this event.

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An Eventbrite ticket is required to attend

If cost would keep you from attending, see the NOTAFLOF policy at the bottom of the description.

You are encouraged to also . It’s not required, but it lets everyone know you’re attending, adds you to the event chat, and helps make connections.

REMINDER: Plura RSVP does not hold your spot — An eventbrite ticket is needed for each attendee.

This event is being hosted at a private residence in Sunnyvale, CA. Address will be shared in the confirmation email.

Do not share the address without permission from a host. Direct all address requests to Rose.

Rose and John

There is a step up to the front door. The second story is not required to access in order to enjoy and participate fully.

No Pets living here. Service animals welcome.

Arrive on time for opening circle.

New attendees: Being present for your first opening circle is mandatory. If you realize you'll arrive after opening circle, please do not attend. Instead, ask for a refund on your ticket and plan on attending a future potluck.

Returning attendees: Aim to be on time to reduce disruption. If you will arrive late, please let a host or others know, and discreetly join a discussion group that looks like it has less people.

7:00 – 8:00 PM | Socializing & Potluck Dinner

8:00 – 8:15 PM | Opening Circle (Community Agreements & Topic)

8:15 – 9:15 PM | Small Group Discussions

9:15 – 9:30 PM | Closing Circle

9:30 - 10:00 PM | Freestyle Socializing

Let's Talk about Love

This is a dinnertime potluck—please bring food or drinks to share. Home-cooked or takeout is welcome. Gluten-free and low-sugar options are often appreciated, and wholesome, filling dishes are always a great choice.

Please write in the Plura chat what you will be bringing in the days before the event.

Street parking available. Please do not park in driveway. Carpool if possible, sometimes the street gets full from other events nearby. Parking is usually available within a 5 - 10 minute walk.

Alcohol is BYOB and should be consumed responsibly and in moderation, as it is not the focus of the event. Cannabis is ok outside, away from other attendees. No tobacco smoking allowed on the property. No other drugs at this event.

Available after the closing circle, fits up to 4 people.
Swimsuits optional—Keep the hot tub vibes non-sexual.
Nudity is allowed only on the back deck while in the hot tub.
Bring a towel or ask Rose for one.
Please stay fully clothed inside the house.

If you would like to support to the organizer beyond the price of a ticket, here are two additional options:

1) Purchase a donation ticket for the amount of your choosing, instead of the default paid ticket.

2) Click this link to.

If the price of a ticket would keep you from attending for any reason, including "I don't feel like paying for a ticket today", use the promo code FREE at checkout for this event or future events - no questions asked.

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