Nothing But A Number: Age Gap Dating for Women & Men

Wed Mar 04 2026 at 07:00 pm to 09:00 pm UTC-05:00

Talon Bar | Brooklyn

SheMagick Events
Publisher/HostSheMagick Events
Nothing But A Number: Age Gap Dating for Women & Men
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A night for older women and younger men
About this Event

We've all heard the phrase that age is nothing but a number. Whether it's 5, 10, or a 15+ year difference, join us for a fun and interactive night where we prove that to be very true.


Ladies, if you often find that men your age can't keep up with you and are open to authentic connection then this night is for you. In this trans inclusive dating event, we'll set the tone with group games and 1-1 conversation starters that get the energy flowing. You won't be sitting all night, nor will you get lost in the corner of the room.


This will not be a speed dating where everyone sits and just rotates from one person to the next all night. Expect playful games, unique conversation starters, and to interact with everyone in the room. We curate conversation that is meant to bring about actual connection! The night will end with open mix and mingling. Prepare to stay later than 9pm. Folks usually don't end up leaving until around 10pm.


Ages

Women: 35+

Men: 21-40

Venue requires you to be 21 to enter. Tickets are divided to ensure we are able to keep the numbers to 50/50 as much as possible. Once a particular ticket type is sold out, it will show as such. You can message to be placed on the waitlist.



What can you expect?
  • We will begin on time. Arrive as early as 6:30pm in order to be all set for our 7pm start.
  • Start the night with icebreakers to allow the entire group to get to know one another and feel comfortable and loose. The icebreakers will center around unique ways to get to know everyone in the room just that little bit better. All games will encourage playfulness and connection.
  • The night will then move into 1-1 dates. These dates will revolve around an activity to help with the feeling of "what do I do now?" There will be something to do with your hands to allow for fidgety social lubricant. Men, we ask that you bring an item that speaks to who you are. A favorite poem, tie, set of dice, whatever. This will be used for group or 1-1 matching.
  • A mixer at the end will allow folks to connect with those they didn't get a chance to during the structured part of the evening. Many stay about a half hour to an hour later than the event end.
  • You may NOT have a 1-1 date with everyone in the room. Depending on how many people attend, it may not be possible for everyone to meet 1-1. This is why we include the group games in the beginning and the mixer at the end. Everyone will meet and while we prioritize everyone meeting 1-1, that can sometimes be impossible within the time frame! Again, this is NOT a speed dating event where you are a cog being pushed along in a factory. We are intentional and seek to created deeper connections within the entire space.



Dress Code:
  • We ask that folks dress in whatever way makes you happy! Dress bold, bright, playfully, in all black. Whatever suits your soul & style.



Can I come if I am poly and have a partner?
  • Yes, this event is for those who are monogamous, monogam'ish, or in poly dynamics.



Do I have to have done age gap dating before?
  • No. This event ranges from people who are curious about age gaps, open/willing to engage in them, and those who primarily date with an age gap. Everyone is welcome!



Is this only for kinksters?
  • No. This event is for ALL who are open to age gap dating. They may be specifically into kink or may not be.

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Agenda

🕑: 06:30 PM - 07:05 PM
Arrival

Info: Enter as early as 6:30 to be ready for the start time at 7:05pm


🕑: 07:05 PM - 07:35 PM
Icebreaker & Group Games

Info: A game with the entire group to loosen everyone up, set expectations, and get the night started. Then split into smaller groups for deeper levels of connection.


🕑: 07:35 PM - 08:30 PM
Matching and 1-1 Conversations

Info: We'll match people together for 1-1 conversations. We'll then mix it up again by using the items people bring as another way to match for more 1-1 conversations.


🕑: 08:30 PM - 09:00 PM
Mix & Mingle

Info: Open mingling where you can speak to those you didn't get a chance to yet and connect with everyone in the room. Folks usually leave around 10pm.


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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Talon Bar, 220 Wyckoff Avenue, Brooklyn, United States

Tickets

USD 28.52

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