Hosted by Dan & the Kink Collective at The Sanctuary of East Harlem
Calling all male-presenting spankos! This is your space to connect, play, and explore—whether you’re a seasoned enthusiast or just curious. We’ve designed this party to celebrate spanking in all its forms, with room for OTK, floggers, whips, and everything in between.
The Setup:
Dedicated play zones with a St. Andrew’s cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, and massage tables.
Ample wall space for creative positioning.
A relaxed vibe to mingle, negotiate, and dive into scenes at your pace.
What to Expect:
2:00–6:00 PM | Open play (arrive by 1:45 for introductions and rules).
Communal snacks (bring something to share—coffee, tea, and water provided). Bring beverage of your choice.
BYO gear (no house toys, but cleaning supplies are stocked).
Temperature-controlled, second-floor space (one flight of stairs)/not wheelchair accessible.
Rules for Respectful Play:
Consent is mandatory—ask before touching anyone or anything.
Clean up after yourself (alcohol wipes provided).
Know your limits—negotiation forms available to clarify boundaries.
Logistics:
Cost:
$40 Regular Tickets
$30 Member Tickets
OR
Pay at the Door (Cash, Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, PayPal):
$50 Regular Tickets
$40 Member Tickets
For Advance tickets, click here.
For Whappz users this is a great way to meet local spankers/spankees and is a way to get verified. You are encouraged to make connections via Fetlife, Whappz, Recon, and other various methods of contact.
Come for the spanking, stay for the camaraderie—or pop in/out as you please.
Event Venue
113 E 125th St, New York, NY 10035-1661, United States, 113 E 125th St, New York, NY 10035-1661, United States, Astoria
