Meet Your Match Among the Stacks: A 40+ Queer Singles Mixer & Book Swap!

Fri Sep 19 2025 at 07:00 pm to 09:00 pm UTC-04:00

Charis Books & More | Decatur

Charis Books and More + Charis Circle
Publisher/HostCharis Books and More + Charis Circle
Meet Your Match Among the Stacks: A 40+ Queer Singles Mixer & Book Swap!
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This is a queer singles mixer exclusively for folks aged 40+ to mingle, swap books, and spark connections!
About this Event

You've asked and we've listened! SO MANY of y'all have asked for us to help you find a date so we have engaged the services of Atlanta's premiere queer + trans community matchmaker, Ashley of Ever After, to HOOK Y'ALL UP!

Step into a cozy bookstore after hours, where the shelves are stacked with stories and sparks are waiting to be written—our queer singles mixer is part rom-com, part meet-cute, and all about connection. Trade your favorite book recs and let playful prompts guide you from shy smiles to flirty banter. Who knows? Between the aisles of romance, fantasy, and poetry, you just might find someone ready to start a brand-new chapter with you.

This is a queer singles mixer exclusively for folks aged 40+ to mingle, swap books, and spark connections! We'd really love to see people of all ages and stages find love at Charis! And if you're under 40, don't fret, we've got something in the works for y'all too!

This is a free event but RSVP is required because space is limited.

What to Expect:

  • Bring a book you love (or one you’ve been meaning to let go of).
  • Swap your book with someone new and start a conversation!
  • Fun icebreakers and activities to connect over your favorite stories.

What to Wear:

Dress to impress your fellow bibliophiles! Think casual chic!

Who Should Come?

If you’re a book lover who loves love, this event is for YOU! This is a queer singles mixer for folks aged 40+ to mingle, swap books, and spark connections!

So grab your favorite book, your best “bookish chic” outfit, and join us for an evening of fun, flirty connection!

Because love, like a good story, comes in all forms—and we can’t wait to help you start yours!

What are you waiting for? Don’t miss the chance to turn the page on your love story.

Suggested Donation to Charis Circle is $10-20, but no one will be turned away for lack of funds. Click here to donate.

About the matchmaker:

Ashley is a queer matchmaker and the founder of Ever After, an inclusive matchmaking service dedicated to helping LGBTQ+ individuals find love and build meaningful connections. Her mission? To create safe, welcoming spaces and date experiences where everyone—regardless of orientation—can explore authentic connections, celebrate their true selves, and find their happily EVER AFTER. Ready to write your love story?

In-person event guidelines:

  • All attendees must wear a face mask.
  • As a reminder: If you are not feeling well, please do not come to the event.

If you have any questions regarding these guidelines or to request specific accessibility accommodations, including ASL interpretation, please [email protected] call the store at 404-524-0304.

By attending our event you agree to our Code of Conduct: Our event seeks to provide a harassment-free experience for everyone, regardless of gender, gender identity and expression, age, sexual orientation, disability, physical appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, religion (or lack thereof), class, or technology choices. We do not tolerate harassment in any form. Unsolicited sexual language and imagery are not appropriate. Anyone violating these rules will be expelled from this event and all future events at the discretion of the organizers. Please report all harassment [email protected].

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Charis Books & More, 184 South Candler Street, Decatur, United States

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