About this Event
Dance first. Decide later.
Oxfordshire, it's time to kiss dating apps goodbye. But, and this is key, this is not one of those incredibly awkward singles events.
This is a high-energy social experience that just happens to be for single people.
No apps.
No awkward standing around wondering who to talk to.
No pressure to “pick someone”.
No getting stuck with the same person all night.
Instead: movement, laughter, rotation, and genuine connection — the way humans have met for centuries.
THE IDEA
Modern dating has become awkward and exhausting.
This night is the opposite.
A ceilidh (traditional social dancing) is perfect for meeting people because:
- Everyone dances
- Everyone rotates
- Everyone interacts
- No one is singled out
- No one has to perform or impress
You don’t need to be a good dancer.
You don’t need a partner.
You don’t need a plan.
You just show up — and the structure does the rest.
How the Night Works
1. Arrival & Pre-Dance Mixer (Drinks + Warm-Up) @ 7pm
We’ll start with a relaxed mixer so you can arrive, grab a drink, and ease into the room. Hosts will be around, music will be on, and the vibe will be welcoming — not forced.
2. The Reframe
Before we dance, we’ll set the tone clearly:
- This is not about pairing up
- You will dance with lots of people
- You are not meant to “choose” anyone on the night
- Chemistry can be explored after the dancing ends during the pub mixer
3. The Ceilidh (The Main Event)
A live caller set to music will guide us through high-energy, beginner-friendly dances with:
- Frequent partner changes
- Group dances (not intimate one-on-one slow dances)
- Constant movement and rotation
You will not get stuck with one person all night.
Everyone dances with everyone over time — naturally and effortlessly.
4. The Afterparty @ a Local Pub
Once the dancing ends, we’ll head to a nearby pub to keep the night flowing. No structure, no expectations — just a chance to relax, chat, and let things unfold organically.
The Matchmaking
After the event, we handle the awkward bit — not on the night.
Before the event:
Attendees provide a simple profile:
- A clear photo
- A short, friendly bio answering a few questions
After the event (1–2 days later):
You’ll receive a private form where you can indicate:
- Anyone you’d be keen to see again
If interest is mutual, we’ll facilitate the next step — without sharing phone numbers.
Instead of endless messaging, we’ll help arrange a real-world dinner or drink, based on both people’s availability. No texting. Just a chance to reconnect in real life.
No rejection in the room.
No pressure to act fast.
No need to give your phone number to strangers.
Just intentional, human follow-ups.
Who This Is For
✔️ You’re single and curious
✔️ You’re tired of dating apps
✔️ You want something social, fun, and low-pressure
✔️ You’re open to meeting people through shared experience
Important Notes
- This event is capped at 50 women and 50 men (book in advance!)
- We hope to offer similar events for other sexualities as demand allows
- You do not need dance experience — beginners are expected
- Numbers are capped to keep the experience balanced and high-quality
- This event is for people in the 20s and 30s. We will do similar events for other age ranges.
Tickets
🎟 Early Bird: £15
🎟 Second Release: £17.50
🎟 Final Release / General Admission: £20
Tickets are limited and will not be expanded beyond capacity.
We will sell tickets on the door, but only up to the limits we have in terms of our availability.
In Short
You’ll dance with loads of people.
You’ll laugh more than you expect.
You’ll leave having actually met people.
And if there’s a spark?
We’ll help you pick it up — later.
Meet Cute: A Singles Ceilidh
No apps. No pressure. Just real life.
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
St Clement's Centre, Cross Street, Oxford, United Kingdom
GBP 15.00 to GBP 20.00
