It's Not Fitness, It's Life Itself | A Wellness Play Party

IT"S NOT FITNESS, IT'S LIFE ITSELF.

Join us for a night of play, fitness and wellness where we'll be breaking a sweat and having a blast!

Whether you're a gym enthusiast or just looking to stretch and unwind, there's something for everyone.

Summer is cumming, time to get back at it!

Don't miss your chance to 'get your reps in,' 'get your steps in,' and even 'get your strokes in' as you mingle, move, and maybe even catch a glimpse of your 'Gym crush.' Whether you're a seasoned fitness fanatic or just starting out, this is the perfect opportunity to explore, connect, and have fun. So, grab your workout gear and join us for a night of wellness and wonder!"

A message to any newcomers!

We understand that attending a play party can feel overwhelming, but rest assured, we're here to support you every step of the way. Our Guardians are dedicated volunteers here to assist you throughout the night, and we've made reporting any concerns easy and confidential. Your safety and comfort are our top priorities. If you have any questions or concerns, no matter how small, please don't hesitate to reach out to us at [email protected]. You don't need to feel nervous—we're here to provide all the information and reassurance you need before stepping into the event.

Event Info:

This is a private event at the HMU loft, you do not need to be a HMU member to attend. You do however need to follow standard play party rules and procedures. No tickets will be sold at the door.

The address is 120 Walker Street Manhattan Floor #6.

Required Consent Orientation at 10:30 PM SHARP, during this orientation for first timers, you'll get acquainted with the venue, meet your hosts, and receive valuable insights to enhance your party experience with confidence.

DOORS CLOSE AT 1AM.

DRESS CODE:

• Whether you prefer sleek leggings or loose shorts, supportive sports bras or tank tops, and comfortable sneakers or barefoot, the choice is yours. Wear your nice active wear, not the decade old gym clothes! Please!
• The emphasis is on clothing that allows you to move freely and comfortably while still feeling good about yourself. Feel free to accessorize with sweat-wicking headbands, wristbands, and water bottles to enhance your experience.
• Please note that entry will be denied for those wearing street clothes like t-shirts, jeans, non-black sneakers, sweats, or cargo pants without an alternative outfit.
• If costumes or fetish wear isn't your preference, consider a button-down shirt, a sports coat, and black pants. Attire plays a pivotal role in shaping the night's ambiance, so let's all contribute to making it a magical and unforgettable experience for our passionate guests. Thank you for your understanding and support!

FOOD & DRINK:

• We will serve an array of snacks and charcuterie boards to satisfy your hunger in between play sessions.
• For drinks, we offer select complimentary alcoholic beverages, and just ask that you bring your own mixers. You may also BYOB and label them upon arrival.
• You must take your bottles with you at the end of the night, and please avoid open containers while walking around. If you claim your bottle(s), you must leave the event and not loiter with the open containers.
• Our bartenders may decline service if you seem overly intoxicated, so let's all enjoy responsibly.

THE SPACE:

• Please be respectful of our space and fellow attendees by properly disposing of your trash, including cups and condoms.
• For wetter play sessions, convenient puppy pads are available at the designated sex stations.
• Take advantage of the provided sex supplies, and you're also welcome to bring your own for a personalized experience.

CONSENT POLICY

• Please review our consent policy here.
• Our secret word is LIFT - for the last question on the ticket form!
• Introducing our new consent and safety lead, Emma! They will be the only one handling emailed reports sent to [email protected].
• Dr. Emma Kaywin (they/them) is a trauma-informed consent and safety professional who consults with many play and kink parties and adjacent nightlife spaces to create safer spaces.
• They are not a leader or producer of Life Itself.

SMOKING:

• Smoking and vaping are strictly prohibited within the premises.
• You must go outside and do so before the doors close.

COAT CHECK:

• For your convenience, we will have an area set up for coat check, but please use other areas for changing instead of the coat check line
• Kindly refrain from bringing large suitcases to the event.

HEALTH & SAFETY: In the interest of community health and safety, we urge all attendees to prioritize the well-being of others. If you've tested positive for COVID or feel unwell, please refrain from attending the event. Prior to the event, monitor yourself for any symptoms of illness. Your cooperation is greatly appreciated.

Event Check-In: Upon arrival, ensure you have your ticket purchase confirmation email and your ID ready for check-in. Guests and first-time attendees should be accompanied by their experienced mentors. This event is strictly 21+.

DOORS CLOSE AT 1AM.

Event Support:

• Volunteers will be easily identifiable by their illuminated armbands. If you have questions or encounter any discomforting situations, do not hesitate to approach them.
• Feel free to seek assistance if you ever feel lonely, confused, or uncomfortable.
• To report a consent violation after the event, you can email [email protected]. We encourage you to report any incident no matter how small, and we will work together if any action needs to be taken.

Consent Policy:

• Consent is required for all physical activity.
• Ensure your partner(s) are in a position to give consent.
• Strictly adhere to the “no touching without permission” rule, even for hugs or friendly shoulder touches.
• Initiate conversations with potential partners, ensuring a mutual understanding and agreement on the boundaries of your interactions.
• Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
• If you wish to observe, please do so discreetly from a distance without disrupting ongoing play or scenes

Rules:

• No phones in the play spaces. If you need to use your phone, please do so in the lobby where you initially checked in.
• Comply with the dress code; street clothes are not allowed.
• Demonstrate respect for the space and assist in maintaining its cleanliness.
• Remember that everyone must leave by 4 AM.

DOORS CLOSE AT 1AM.

We look forward to hosting you!

If you have any questions or need assistance, feel free to email us at [email protected].

We're here to help and look forward to hearing from you and thank you for being a part of Life Itself!

The exact address is 120 Walker Street Manhattan, Floor #6.

Event Venue

Lower Manhattan, Manhattan, New York, NY, USA, United States