Pleasure can be an act of empowerment by women of color. Fight oppression by leaning into your sexual self.About this Event
This session will explore barriers of pleasure for women of color, and how pleasure can be an act of self care. We will learn and discuss how the rules and norms of society and patriarchy at large have owned women of color's bodies and dictate how they experience pleasure. Also, we will discuss how the patriarchy has always had control over the bodies of women of color. We will also highlight how stereotypes of women of color through various forms of media contribute to fetishization of women of color, which often leads to sexual violence. Tips of how to utilize pleasure as a form of self care will be identified.
Level/Who should attend
No skill pre-requisites. Can attend solo or with a partner(s)
What to bring
Anything that helps you feel safe (blanket, soft mat, fidgets, safety person)
What to wear
Comfortable clothing, whatever makes you feel good. No nudity please.
Instructor Bio
Jay (they/them) is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Approved Clinical Supervisor with 15 years practicing in clinical/professional skills within the social services and behavioral healthcare fields. Their ambition is to decolonize sexual intimacy in order to promote mental wellness for marginalized communities. Jay engages in community integration, consultation, providing supervision for pre-licensed clinicians, collaborations workshops and presentations. They are also an advocate for the queer community, BIPOC and women. Jay is an Intersectional feminist. They often involve themself in protests and fundraising, which is a way for me to dismantle the chains of oppression. Jay is also part of the LGBTQIA+ community and a proud Queer Filipinx Sex Therapist that carries a diagnosis of Complex PTSD.
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Event Venue
120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States
USD 39.19