About this Event
This Hit Me Up event is open to the public, 21+.
Ever been in a scene where the D/s didn’t feel as clear as you thought they would? Maybe you were “the top,” but found yourself in service. Maybe you were “the bottom,” but realized you were directing the whole flow. Or maybe you’ve gotten stuck in the idea that the top has to provide an experience while the bottom just receives — and wondered what else was possible.This class unpacks those confusing, nuanced moments of power play. Together, we’ll explore:
- What happens when the top is technically bottoming, or the bottom is topping.
- How the same action shifts depending on who it’s for.
- The difference between taking vs. receiving, giving vs. serving.
- Ways to move fluidly between roles with more intention.
- Whether you crave more clarity, or want to expand your range in scenes, this workshop will help you add depth and nuance to your power play — making it less about stereotypes and more about choice, flow, and intention.
About the Instructor
Mx. Fox is a femme domme, kink educator, and relationship & intimacy coach with nearly a decade of experience practicing and teaching in the NYC scene. Their work focuses on helping people of all experience levels build confidence, express themselves shamelessly, and create hotter, safer, and more connected play and relationships.
Price Transparency
The full price for this class is $45. If you are a SWorker, BIPOC, and/or otherwise in financial need, please use the discount code EQUITY25 at check out for a discount off your ticket.
FAQs
FAQ: what should I bring?
Just your sexy self! Optional: Any toys (object or person) you want to practice with
FAQ: any skill pre-requisites? (i.e., is this for beginners, advanced, everyone?)
This class is suitable for all levels
FAQ: what should I wear?
Come as you are
FAQ: can I attend solo, or do I need to come with a partner?
Solo is fine
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✨Location: 120 Walker St in Lower Manhattan. The space has an elevator. Please email [email protected] if you need any accessibility accommodations.
✨Full vaccination is required. While we recommend getting the booster shots, we are not verifying them at this time.
✨Membership: We reserve the right to refuse entry if needed. Hit Me Up also hosts private events which are invite only, and anyone new to Hit Me Up must apply and be approved to attend—no guests or plus ones. Please visit https://www.hitmeupnyc.com/join to join. You are welcome to inquire as to your status or that of your friends, but please do not act as if you have an entitlement to access our space or members. Building special spaces is hard, and while we are inclusive and welcoming, we reserve the right to curate our membership as needed to maintain our flourishing community. If you'd like to sponsor a new member please have them apply as soon as possible. If they wait until a few days before the event we cannot guarantee they will be able to be approved in time.
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✨Consent Policy: All of our events are ASK FIRST events. The rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading our consent policy and behaving appropriately. Read our consent policy in full: https://www.hitmeupnyc.com/consent. If you have questions, want to make a report, or need support, please contact our third party consent reporting service, available at [email protected].
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
120 Walker St floor 5, 120 Walker Street, New York, United States
USD 49.31
