Feel The Power: Pain On The Brain

Exploring the Art of Pain

Why does stubbing your toe make you curse, but a firm spanking can send shivers down your spine? The brain processes pain and pleasure through the same neural pathways, which is why pain can be not just bearable but deeply satisfying—even transformative. Whether you crave intense sensation, want to push your limits, or seek catharsis through pain, understanding the science behind it can unlock new depths in your play.

This workshop explores how pain functions in both the body and mind, why we crave it, and how to harness it for healing and pleasure. You’ll learn to expand your pain threshold, regulate sensation during play, and refine your communication around pain to create safer, more fulfilling experiences.

🧠 The Science of Sensation & Why We Crave Pain – Explore how the brain and nervous system process both physical and emotional pain, why pain and pleasure are deeply connected, and the psychological and physiological reasons we seek out intense sensation.

🔥 Harnessing Pain for Healing & Play – Learn how pain—both physical and emotional—can be a tool for catharsis, empowerment, and deep transformation in k¡nk and beyond.

⚡ Working with the Pain/Pleasure Threshold – Discover practical techniques to progressively expand sensation capacity during a scene, including breathwork, nervous system regulation, and intensity shifts.

🛠️ Communication Around Pain – Develop strategies for negotiating pain levels, recognizing emotional responses, and integrating aftercare. Learn why safewords should be a backup rather than the first signal of discomfort, and why the 1-10 pain scale is outdated.

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and meet other like-minded folks!

Discussion and Practical Exercises: The workshop will include a mix of discussions and hands-on exercises. You'll have the chance to interact with others, practice communication techniques, and receive feedback.

Solo and Group Work:

• Attend solo or bring someone along. Couples can stay paired or choose to practice with others.
• You’ll have opportunities to practice with both familiar partners and new acquaintances to replicate established dynamics and/or pickup scene scenarios.
• Expect communication-based exercises and optionally negotiated non-sexual touch. You can also opt-out at any time and observe others!
• More physical practice will be reserved for the Jam portion afterward.
• We won’t assign partners—guests are encouraged to connect at their comfort level.

• Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want, whether vanilla or ready to practice. There is a spot to change if you need.

Stick around for our jam session. This is your chance to put what you’ve learned into action, trying out your new skills in a supportive setting. The lights go down, the music goes up, and fun time begins! Nix will be available for feedback, scenes, or additional guidance to solidify the workshop’s learning in a hands-on, fun environment. Participate at your own comfort level - whether that means observing, chatting, or having fun with others. non-sexual

● Workshop: Classic $40

● Workshop and Jam: Classic $75

Required Disclaimer: It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: kink activities & intimacy are inherently risky. Safety is something that requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.

Questions or concerns? Email [email protected]

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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Near Union Square, Address in email confirmation additional info section, union square, New York, United States