Ditch the Apps: Charlotte's Compatibility-Based Dating Event (45 - 65)

Sat Sep 20 2025 at 05:00 pm to 06:30 pm UTC-04:00

The Auto Pour | Charlotte

Filled Cups - Charlotte
Publisher/HostFilled Cups - Charlotte
Ditch the Apps: Charlotte's Compatibility-Based Dating Event (45 - 65)
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Frustrated with dating apps? Join us in Charlotte for a fun singles event that goes beyond the typical dating apps and speed dating!
About this Event

Ditch the Apps. Connect in Real Life.

Saturday, August 2 at 5:00pm (Check-in starts at 4:30pm)📍 The Auto-Pour – 5033 South Boulevard #O, Charlotte, NC 28217🕒 Duration: 1.5 hours | 🎯 Ages: Mid-40s to Mid-60s


IMPORTANT: Fill out the Compatibility Questionnaire when you reserve your ticket
This Isn’t Speed Dating. It’s Actually Better.

Tired of surface-level swiping, stale small talk, or awkward speed dating setups that feel more like interviews than connection? You’re not alone—and that’s exactly why we created this experience.

At Filled Cups, we do things differently. This isn’t about rushing through conversations or matching based on selfies. It’s about real people making real connections—in a way that feels easy, natural, and (dare we say) actually fun.


What to Expect:

✅ Curated Grouping – Based on our Compatibility Questionnaire✅ Up to $10 Beverage Credit – Use it for wine, beer, or non-alcoholic option✅ Fun, Structured Activities – No pressure, just icebreakers and games that make meeting people effortless✅ “Get to Know You” Prompts – Skip the small talk and go straight to meaningful conversation✅ Future Discounts – Save on upcoming events when you attend

All you have to do? Show up open-minded and ready to connect.


Why It Works:
  • We personalize your experience based on your questionnaire responses
  • We facilitate interaction through thoughtful, playful activities
  • We foster an authentic environment—where you can be yourself and genuinely connect

Expect laughter, curiosity, and maybe even butterflies.


🎟️ A Few Quick Notes:
  • Tickets are limited to ensure balanced, high-quality interactions
  • Our last event sold out of women’s tickets 3 days early—so don’t wait
  • Ticket sales close 2 hours before the event
  • Refunds available up to 3 days prior (excluding fees)

👉 Important: Be sure to complete the Compatibility Questionnaire after booking. It's what helps us place you with people you'll click with.

Ready to meet someone great? Or at the very least, enjoy a night of good convo and drinks with Charlotte locals who are in the same stage of life?Click the ticket button above—let’s make some magic happen.


Event Guidelines:

  • Be on time and follow the rules of the event
  • Be present - your phone can wait
  • Be respectful — even if you aren’t interested in a person, be kind
  • Dress up for the occasion — but make sure you feel comfortable
  • Try to ask creative questions, show curiosity, and listen
  • Think of what you might want to tell people about yourself
  • Have fun — everyone’s in the room for the same reason, so relax!

Safety and Respect

  • Speak up if someone has said something offensive or behaved inappropriately
  • Offensive/innapropriate behavior will not be tolerated
  • Don’t put pressure on people to exchange contact info with you; If you'd like to stay in touch, give them your number

Photography and video:

Please note, you may be photographed or video recorded during the event. By joining the event, you consent to photography, video recording and permission to use the material for advertising or other purposes.


About Filled Cups:

Filled Cups is on a mission to get people out of isolation so they can meet their people in person and make meaningful relationships (both romantic and platonic) that fill their emotional cups.

We also host singles events for mid 20s thru 40s and friend-matching events. If you're interested in our other events, check out our organizer page and follow us. You can also connect with us on our website and socials:

Filledcups.com

Instagram - Tiktok - Facebook Page - Youtube

Charlotte Facebook Groups: Singles - Friends


What past participants are saying about our events:

"This event was really fun and reduced the pressure of meeting new people. I will definitely attend again "

"I enjoyed the event. I liked that it was relaxed and intimate. "

"I love the survey beforehand, and enjoyed the opportunity to mix and mingle beyond the tables/groups we were assigned to."


Event Photos
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Agenda
Prior to Event

Info: Fill out the Compatibility Questionnaire: LINK https://forms.gle/gjMrkwTKVQRc4jrB7


đź•‘: 04:30 PM - 05:00 PM
check-in

Info: look for the check-in station with a person wearing a filled-cups t-shirt. You'll be given a name tag and will be shown to your table.


đź•‘: 05:00 PM - 06:30 PM
During the Event
Host: Fernanda B

Info: You'll meet the people in your group and will participate in various activities together. These activities are meant to help you get to know each other better. At the end of the event, participants can exchange contact info if desired, and are encouraged to make future plans if there was a connection.


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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

The Auto Pour, 5033 South Boulevard, Charlotte, United States

Tickets

USD 29.57

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