About this Event
This is not a mixer, a typical large speed-dating event, or an open singles gathering.
Curated Coffee Intros is an intentionally designed matchmaking experience for singles ages 30-40 who are relationship-oriented, emotionally self-aware, and tired of dating apps.
All participants complete a short application prior to attendance. This process helps ensure genuine interest in dating, aligned relationship intentions, and a balanced group.
What's different about our events? Our matches are made with intention, not based on ticket purchase alone. If we don’t see appropriate match potential or overall balance (including age range or gender mix), you may be invited to a future event that’s a better fit (all events operate on a bi-weekly basis).
Screening consists of a short set of thoughtful questions to confirm seriousness about dating, emotional readiness, and general alignment with the group. This is not a clinical or therapeutic evaluation, and the screening is light. There may be things we do not know or catch; however, we aim to give everyone the best chance at finding a good match.
You’ll meet a small number of aligned individuals over coffee in a relaxed, public setting, with subtle facilitation available as needed. No pressure. No performance. Just intentional introductions.
What Makes This Different
• Application required
• Small, curated group (no crowds)
• Thoughtful matching and intentional design
• Hosted by a former therapist
• No forced icebreakers or speed rotations
• Quality over quantity
Important Notes
• Application required; submission does not guarantee acceptance
• Invitations are typically sent 72 hours prior to the event
• This experience serves as a low-key introduction to our higher-touch matchmaking offerings
Don't see your location or age group? Send us an email and we will work on adding these. [email protected]
Event Venue & Nearby Stays
1202 The Alameda, 1202 The Alameda, San Jose, United States
USD 49.87












