Community Grief Ceremony

Thu Mar 06 2025 at 06:30 pm to Sat Mar 08 2025 at 03:30 pm UTC-08:00

Unity Community of Central Oregon | Bend

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Community Grief Ceremony
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This is a soul-cleansing rite that helps you find your way back to wholeness, peace, and self-acceptance.
About this Event

“Surrendering to your sorrow has the power to heal the deepest of wounds”

-Sobonfu Some-

In life it is necessary to grieve those things that no longer serve us in order to let them go. Grief is a common human emotion that impacts us all. It can come to us through divorce, illness, loss of dreams, conflict, death, change and so much more. Grief is an invitation to feel. It invites us to come into the body to shed light on those things that are ready to be released in order to heal. Because of this, we must have ways to move our pain. Grief needs to be regularly felt and released or it begins to smother our joy, creativity, and our ability to connect with our self and others.

Community Grief Ceremony is a safe way to learn how to lean into grieving within and among community. Communal grieving offers something that we cannot get when we grieve by ourselves. Through validation, acknowledgement and witnessing, communal grieving allows us to experience a level of healing that is deeply and profoundly freeing. Each of us has a basic human right to that genuine love, happiness and freedom.


WHO SHOULD ATTEND?

-People feeling grief for the loss of a loved one, a pet, a partnership, or job

-Anyone stuck in unhealthy relationships or emotionally unhealthy situations

-Those who feel called, but may not know yet what they are grieving.

-People in transition of any kind, whether through divorce, illness, accidents, or disappointed dreams

-People in recovery

-Front line workers such as therapists, educators, nurses, social workers, hospice caregivers, police men or women, activists

-Veterans

-Those feeling the collective grief of a violent world, or the environmental harm of the earth

-Anyone with sadness and pain to release

- People dealing with a chronic illness

- Those who have lost a loved one


ABOUT THE LINEAGE OF THIS CEREMONY:

This ceremony is inspired by the work of Sobonfu Somé who took the teachings and healing practices from her tribe–The Dagara tribe of West Africa to America. Over the course of her life she traveled all over the US and Europe, teaching people how to grieve through the Dagara tradition. Dagara rituals offer profound healing, making spirit tangible by preparing the mind, body and soul to receive the spirituality that surrounds us.

Her website to learn more about Sonbonfu

http://www.sobonfu.com


STATEMENT OF INCLUSION

  • No matter your gender, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, or abilities, you are welcome here.
  • BIPOC, Trans, and LGBTQIA+ identifying participants encouraged to purchase a discounted ticket under the "pay what you can" ticket option



F ACILITATED BY:

This ceremony will be facilitated by Hillary Hurst, Barbara Largent, Shireen Amini, Shanti O'Connor and will be supported by various community members. Hillary Hurst is a mental health therapist who spent many years working with Sobonfu at grief rituals. Before Sonbonfu’s passing she asked Hillary to continue this work within her community. Barbara Largent is a physician and energy healer who does deep emotional and trauma release work. Shireen Amini (non-binary using she/her pronouns) is a queer, Puerto Rican-Iranian American musical artist who will support the ceremony as drum and song keeper. Shanti O'Connor is an intuitive energy healer, counselor and community organizer.


Supporting Clean Water in Africa:

A portion of the proceeds will be donated to Wisdom Springs.

Wisdom Spring is a non-profit started by Sobonfu Some whose mission is to support leadership skills in youth and raises money to help countries in Africa access clean water.

To learn more about this organization please go to https://wisdomspring.org


HOSTED BY:

Hillary Hurst, Barbara Largent, Shireen Amini, and Shanti O’Connor


SCHEDULE:

Thursday, February 22, 2024

6:30PM Arrive/Register:

7:00 – 9:00 PM Opening Ceremony

Friday, February 23, 2024

8:30am Arrive/Settle in

Grief Ceremony: 9:00 AM – 9:00 PM

Lunch:1-2

Dinner: 5-6

Saturday, February 24, 2024

8 :30am: Arrive/Settle In

9 am-2pm: Integration/Closing Ceremony


WHERE:

The Grief Ceremony will be held indoors at...

Unity Community:

63645 Scenic Dr, Bend, OR 97701

********Unity is ADA accessible********


FOOD:

Snacks, tea, and coffee will be provided. Participants are strongly encouraged to bring their own lunch, dinner, and extra food. We will not be feeding you lunch and dinner. Unity has a very small kitchen to warm food, but not to cook it. Please bring your own cooler to store your food and food that is already cooked.


PLEASE BRING TO THE CEREMONY (Friday Morning)

Tall glass containing unscented candle- white, yellow, red, or blue

Color cloth for altars- yellow and/or red for ancestor altar, or blue and/or purple for forgiveness altar

Flowers for altars- white, yellow, red, or blue

One or more ritual objects from home for placement on the ancestor and forgiveness altars. All of these objects will be going home with you once the ceremony is done.

Water bottle, mug for tea, snacks for yourself and snacks to share

Pillow to sit on

Comfortable clothes, wear layers if possible, warm jacket to go outside

Your grief, loss, anger, sadness

Optional: vases, Food/snacks to share


DRUMMERS

This ceremony is supported by strong drummers who can hold a consistent beat and sing at the same time. If you are interested in drumming please bring your own drum Thursday night and be prepared stay 30 minutes after everyone leaves to practice the beat and song.








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Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Unity Community of Central Oregon, 63645 Scenic Drive, Bend, United States

Tickets

USD 0.00 to USD 250.00

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