CARE-FULL: Risk Management & Communication in Kink

CARE-FULL: Risk Management & Communication in Kink

Workshop 7:30-9:45 pm - Jam 10pm-12am

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Pagans Paradise Production Facilitated by The Sirenatrix Nix

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and meet other like-minded folks!

Kink is inherently risky and there’s no way around it. It doesn’t matter if you are a beginner or a seasoned kink veteran - the unexpected will occur. In those moments, the integrity of our systems is put to the test.

I get it, attending a safety workshop may not sound as thrilling as a Tantra or rope event - but I’m so confident you’ll be glad you came that I’m offering a money-back guarantee (and that’s not something I typically do)*.

• Negotiation: We’ll discuss common negotiation mistakes that get in the way of your scenes.
• Aftercare and Debrief: What are the do’s and don’ts to ensure both parties are properly cared for post-scene? How is constructive critique handled (and trust me… if your strategy is not to share it on a regular basis, you’re doing the both of you a great disservice!)
• Manage Uncertainty: Learn why “Uncertainty Management” may be a better way to understand “Risk Management”. How do you identify and isolate variables to maintain control over the scene?
• Shining Light on Blindspots: Heh, we’ll do a mind-blowing exercise involving closed-loop communication. You’ll likely chuckle at the ineptitude of most dialogue.
• Mistakes and Snafus: Delve into why snafus happen, how to address them, and how to create resilient safety nets that mitigate harm.

• Discussion and Practical Exercises: The workshop will include a mix of discussions and hands-on exercises. You'll have the chance to interact with others, practice communication techniques, and receive feedback.
• Solo and Group Work: You can come alone or with a partner. During the exercises, you'll have the opportunity to switch partners, which allows for practicing with familiar partners and new acquaintances. This helps simulate both established dynamics and pickup scene scenarios.
• Dress Code and Interactions: Feel free to dress however you want, whether vanilla or ready to practice. Expect to interact with others for the exercises, at least in terms of communication and light D/s. More physical practice will be saved for the jam afterwards. We do not pair people up, and encourage guests to make friends and engage to their level of comfort ensuring that all are able to learn and grow. Couples can stay paired the whole time or practice with others if you so choose.
• This workshop is open to all gender identifications, sexual orientations, lifestyles, singles and couples. All experience levels welcome. 18+.
• Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to the event.
• Doors open at 7:30pm and closes at 7:40 pm. Please be on time and text ahead if you are delayed.
• You are welcome to wear a mask throughout the duration of the event.
• We encourage all to engage chat via Plura before/after the event!

Stick around for our jam session, exclusively open to workshop participants. During the jam, you'll have the opportunity to practice your new skills in a safe and supportive environment. Nix will be available to offer feedback on the communication that occurs during scenes. This is a unique chance to cement these essential skills through hands-on experience, working and learning together in a fun setting.

● Workshop: Early Bird $30, Classic $40

● Workshop and Jam: Early $55, Classic $75

Required Disclaimer: It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: kink activities are inherently risky and safety is something that requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.

Want to see who's going, match, chat, and meet the community? Check out on the Plura Community app: https://plra.io/m/carefulljul16?r=dominuseros143

Any questions or concerns email [email protected]

PagansParadise.com IG: @pagansparadise

Nix's IG: @the.sirenatrix

*Money-Back Guarantee: if you don't find this course valuable, I will refund your workshop admission (minus applicable transaction fees). To qualify for a refund, you'll be required to provide detailed constructive feedback about your expectations and experience.

Event Venue & Nearby Stays

Herald Square, Herald Square, New York, United States